I Couldn't Believe That He Wasn't Sharing His Views With The World

I Couldn't Believe That He Wasn't Sharing His Views With The World

By Oliver JR Cooper

When I met Wain in 2015, I thought that our paths had crossed in order for us to make videos together. For a little while before this, I had been looking for someone who made videos.

Not just anyone would do, though, as I was looking for someone who would be able to relate to where I was coming from. So, when I met him, I thought that all the pieces of the puzzle were coming together.

On The Path

In addition to having all the equipment that was needed to make videos, he was also someone who was into self-development. Yet, this didn't mean that he felt the need to be happy all the time or to always have positive thoughts.

This was someone who wasn't willing to simply live on the surface of life; he wanted to go deeper. Another way of looking at this would be to say that he wasn't into this subject just to experience pleasure or to avoid himself.

The Theme

After we first met, we started to get together every now and then, and I was surprised by how deep he was. He didn't agree with everything I came out with and he would come out with the reason why this wasn't the case soon after.

It was then not about him disagreeing for the sake of it, he wasn't argumentative. As a result of this, I often felt uncomfortable and was unsure as to what his intentions were.

A Gradual Adjustment

The reason for this was that although part of me knew that he wasn't doing this for the sake of it, another part of me wasn't fully present. This part of me remembered what it was like when I was criticised as a child.

I stayed with it and overtime, this part of me came to see that he had his heart in the right place. Along with the moments when he would question what I came out with, he would often ask me why I wanted to achieve something and what I expected to gain after I had achieved something.

Highly Motivated

This was a time in my life when I was a human doing; I was completely focused on being a successful writer and writing my way to the top. What was behind all this was that I felt worthless and believed that reaching the top would allow me to feel good about myself.

Through feeling so low, it was a challenge for me to just be and to relax; if I did this, I would have got in touch with the feelings and thoughts that I was trying to run away from. Wain, on the other hand, didn't have this approach, and I think that he was intrigued by my behaviour.

Both Ways

I found it hard to understand why he didn't have more drive; especially as he had so much to offer on this subject. At the time, I believed that it was all about doing and taking action, and that being and letting go had no part to play.

Through working through my own layers of trauma and changing my outlook, I started to settle down. It became clear that even though I was doing so much, it wasn't allowing me to achieve more.

A Frustrating Time

It was then as if I had pressed four on a calculator, pressed the add button, and then pressed four again, but instead of ending up with eight - after I had pressed the equals button - I ended up with two.

During this time, then, my masculine aspect was compensating for my undeveloped feminine aspect. Therefore, as I couldn't let go and trust in the universe to give me what I needed, I was trying to use force to get what I needed, or what I thought I needed.

Out of Balance

If the universe worked in what could be classed as logical way, all this work would have resulted in me receiving more. However, as the universe is more concerned with how we feel and the vibration we are giving off, it meant that my reality mirrored back how I felt.

Ultimately, what it was doing wasn't all that important; what was important was how I felt in each moment. I came to see that although Wain did want to share his views, he was going to do this at the right time.

Lopsided

I was so caught up in my mind that I couldn't understand why he didn't just take the next step right away. Through buying into what I had read in self-development books over the years and the conversations I had had with others, I had thought that it was all taking action and that there was no need to hold back.

I can now see how out of balance this outlook is, and how it doesn't take into account how there can be a time to do something and a time to hold back. But when the masculine part of us has taken over, our mind, and the feminine part is overlooked, our body, this is to be expected.

Final Thoughts

There is no doubt that we came into contact with each other at just the right moment, and this was something that seemed to just happen. I thought I was just going to be helping a friend move house and out of nowhere, I meet someone like this.

As time has passed, Wain has shared more of this part of himself with the world. If you would like to find out more about, Wain, and the services that he offers, please go to -    https://www.timetorelax.space/

Prolific writer, author, and coach, Oliver JR Cooper, hails from England. His insightful commentary and analysis covers all aspects of human transformation, including love, partnership, self-love, and inner awareness. With over one thousand six hundred in-depth articles highlighting human psychology and behaviour, Oliver offers hope along with his sound advice.

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2018 Is an 11 /2 Year - A Year of Inspiration, Acceleration and Relationship

2018 Is an 11 /2 Year - A Year of Inspiration, Acceleration and Relationship

By Doreene Hamilton

The year 2018 marks the beginning of a number eleven year cycle for the planet. We get the number eleven by adding 2+0+1+8=11. An eleven is a Master number. In numerology numbers like 11, 22 and 33 are considered master numbers. A master number has a higher vibration than the normal single digit numbers. In layman's terms it's a turbo year!

2017 was a one year and hopefully, you were busy laying down the foundation for how you wanted to see things flow into your life for the next nine years. Many of you started something new last year like a business or a project. Others saw their careers take off or got in a serious relationship. New beginnings are normal in a one year.

2018 has a dual meaning because there are two numbers involved - eleven and two. Eleven, as I mentioned above, makes it more of a turbo year. If you are seriously working on something the chances of success or making major strides in your efforts are more likely to happen this year. Your intuition is also heightened in an eleven year and it is best to follow your hunches, ideas or gut feelings. An eleven year can bring you overdue success and recognition.

It is also a two year because when you add one plus one it equals two. A two year is about relationship. This, by my rule of thumb, means the advancement you seek is based on relationship. It is determined by how you relate to yourself, your environment, your career, your health, your family or love. This is a year to take your time and pay attention to the details of your life, because you may be blocking yourself from reaching the ultimate success you deserve.

If you have a relationship with clutter at home, you may want to end it if it means succeeding as a mortgage lender. Or if your relationship with food is not one of the healthiest, this should be the year to get that relationship under control if it means allowing you to be more creative in your artistic endeavors. Examining and working on improving your relationship with a friend or loved one can open the pathway for improvement in your health. Is this the year you stop being a doormat in your love relationships? How we relate to things and people in our life determines how and if we are able to succeed at anything. I once heard that... "how you do anything is how you do everything." If you knew that by improving your relationship with money, such as creating a monthly budget, that you would cause a shift in your life and you could manifest the love relationship that you have been yearning for, would it be worth doing? That is how energy works. It doesn't flow in absolutes, there is cause and effect.

In 2018 if you are not soaring high in the vibration of the eleven, you are at the base camp of a two frequency. Success can be obtained in either camp because success is in the details.

This is a year to take your goals to the next level. Listen to your inner voice. Examine your relationships and clean them up. We all have something that needs to be addressed. Don't let your ego block your blessings. Above all, plan Big and play Bigger! This is a year that can make a difference in your life, but you have to be proactive in the game. Choose to reign supreme in 2018!

Doreene Hamilton is a Minister of Metaphysics & Spirituality. She is also a speaker, author, transformational teacher and the author of "Spiritually Speaking, Get Over It!" She is based in Los Angeles, but available nationwide for workshops and speaking engagements on transforming your life.

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Child Abuse: Why Would Someone Only Say Nice Things About Their Parents After They Have Passed on?

Child Abuse: Why Would Someone Only Say Nice Things About Their Parents After They Have Passed on?

By Oliver JR Cooper

There are likely to be a number of people out there who not only have plenty of good things to say about their parents now that they passed on, but who had good things to say about them when they were alive. When something like this takes place, it could be said that someone valued their parents.

A Similar Outlook

Their friends and other family members are not likely to be surprised by what they say about their parents now that they are no longer around. These people might be only too aware of the type of connection that one had with them.

Now, this is not to say that someone like won't have ever argued with their parents or fallen out with them, for instance. There is a strong chance that these things happened on more than one occasion.

Part of Life

It would be hard to find a family that has never argued or fallen out. One could look back on the moments where there was tension and see that it gave them the chance to resolve conflict.

This would have been far better than keeping everything within them and portending that everything was fine. There may also have been moments when they didn't speak to one of their parents for a short while.

Another Scenario

Then are then going to be others who didn't really have anything good to say when their parents were alive and, now that they have passed on, the same kinds of things come out of their mouth. When someone can relate to this, they could say that there is no reason for them to be nice now that they are gone.

The fact that they are no longer alive is not going to cause them to change their outlook. If they were to change their outlook, they would probably feel as though they are living a lie.

A Time to forget

One may have been brought up by parents who were abusive, meaning that they wouldn't have been treated well by the people who were supposed to look after them. After their parents passed on, they may have experienced a sense of relief.

The people who treated them so badly would no longer have been able to harm them in any way. If they feel sad after this took place, it might not have been as strong as the other feelings that they experienced.

A Different Experience

This persons friends will understand why they don't have anything good to say about their parents, that's if they have told them about their past. What comes out of one's mouth is not going to be a surprise.

Nevertheless, if someone else was to hear them talk about their parents, they might find it hard to understand how they could be so cold. What this could show is that they were treated well by their parents.

No Idea

Therefore, even if they have heard about child abuse, it might not have had much of an effect on them. To hear about something like this could have a negative effect on how they feel, which could give them the urge to think about something else.

It is then going to be a minor annoyance and not something that they really want to look into. But if they were not treated badly and they are not willing to accept that not everyone is treated well by their parents, it is to be expected that they won't be able to empathise with someone who was abused as a child.

Another Occurrence

In addition to these two outcomes, there is something else that can take place. Here, one wouldn't have got on with their parents when they were alive, but now that they are no longer around, they could act as though they were really close and the best parents anyone could have.

When something like this happens, it will be clear that one has gone from one extreme to another. It will be as though one can no longer remember what was going on when their parents were alive.

Puzzled

Their friends, as well as other family members, could wonder what is going on and how it is not possible for them to face up to what was really going on. Yet, no matter that other people say to them, one might not be willing to change their outlook.

It will be similar to one having a car that they don't like; selling it, and then saying how great it was after it has been sold. One way of looking at this would be to say that the reason they are unable to face reality is because it would be too painful for them to handle.

A Defence Mechanism

If they were to let go of the false construction that they have created to protect themselves, they might end up being overwhelmed by guilt, shame and fear. Seeing the people who abused them as perfect is then a way for them to keep these feelings at bay.

Thus, in order for them to feel good about themselves, they have to do everything they can to stop themselves from facing reality. The guilt, shame and fear that they feel at a deeper level is likely to relate to what happened when they were younger.

A Closer Look

Their parents may have made out that they deserved to be treated badly, and this would have set them up to feel bad about listening to themselves and standing their ground. What this means, then, is that the guilt, shame and fear that they feel is irrational.

Nonetheless, unless one is able to realise that this is the case, they will continue to live in denial. As time passes, the pain that is within them might end up affecting their life in a number of other ways.

Awareness

If one can relate to this, and they want to change their life, it might be a good idea for them to reach out for external support. This can take place with the assistance of a therapist or a healer.

Prolific writer, author, and coach, Oliver JR Cooper, hails from England. His insightful commentary and analysis covers all aspects of human transformation, including love, partnership, self-love, and inner awareness. With over one thousand six hundred in-depth articles highlighting human psychology and behaviour, Oliver offers hope along with his sound advice.

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Ramifications of Trump's Behavior: 6 Examples

Ramifications of Trump's Behavior: 6 Examples

By Richard Brody

Few objective observers would deny, for better of worse, we have never, in recent memory, observed any President, behave, like our present occupant of that office. Donald Trump has spent his public career, in a way, which consistently brought attention, to himself, either by his actions, or rhetoric. Few would deny, he is a master of self - promotion, and while, that, probably, personally benefited him, it is questionable, whether, it will be in the best interest of this country, or many of its citizens. Mr. Trump's behavior, rhetoric, and actions, have certain impacts, and whether intentional, or not, will probably have significant ramifications. Therefore, this article will briefly examine and review, 6 examples, and some possibilities, and/ or probabilities.

1. Environmental/ climate change: Trump has often articulated a message, which seems to be, he doubts the reality of climate change, and any potential dangers. During this recent, record, cold - spell, his message, focused on calling it warming, seeming to misunderstand, people impact the future. He appointed Scott Pruitt, as Secretary, of the Department of Environmental Protection, who has spent much of his career, fighting previous environmental, protective measures. Loosening up, waste - dumping, promoting development in, previously protected lands, and encouraging energy exploration, in the waters, closest to our nation, puts the future of our nation, in terms of clean air, and water, in doubt!

2. Judicial appointments: Depending on one's political views and appointments, any President's judicial appointments, significantly, affects the future! We need open - minded judges, who are both properly prepared, and truly qualified.

3. Race/ ethnic relations: Trump's rhetoric and vitriol, has expanded the ethnic and racial divide, to a level, we have not witnessed, in more than half a century! When the holder of the highest office in our land, seems to articulate a message, contrary, to the concept, of, All men are created equal, does that promote the American dream, etc?

4. Enabling hate groups: The President's message, calling, any, White Supremacists, and Neo - Nazis, Good people, and equating peaceful protestors, to those espousing messages, of hatred and bigotry, has been adopted by many of his core supporters. Doesn't this send the message, which enables haters, to believe, it's good and proper behavior, and feelings?

5. Middle East: The relationships in the Middle East, date many generations and centuries, and developing any type of meeting - of - the - minds, is, at best, extremely challenging. Many Presidents have attempted to assist the process, and only Jimmy Carter, approximately 40 years ago, had any success. Logically, since, at least 4 different religions, claim Jerusalem, as essential, to their religious beliefs and core, doesn't it seem, somewhat obvious. if you hope to create some opportunity for peaceful resolution, you can't begin, in a confrontational manner? Why would any Muslims trust any efforts, from a man, who has consistently used, the vitriol and rhetoric, he has?

6. North Korea: Issues and conflicts, with North Korea, have gone on, as long as, nearly every living American has been alive! However, how can anyone feel safer, more secure, and closer to a peaceful resolution, when Mr. Trump has seemingly taunted, the rather, volatile, North Korean leader, consistently?

Whether you support or oppose him, it's important to realize and recognize, there are ramifications, to his actions, rhetoric, and behavior! These 6, are some of the examples.

Richard has owned businesses, been a COO, CEO, Director of Development, consultant, professionally run events, consulted to thousands, conducted personal development seminars, and worked on political campaigns, for 4 decades. Rich has written three books and thousands of articles. Website: http://plan2lead.net and LIKE the Facebook page for common sense politics: http://facebook.com/commonsense4all

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Realisationism Explained

Realisationism Explained

By John Cowie

Realisationism/Realizationism can be explained quite simply.

It is like someone showing how a magic trick works. The transformation from something totally baffling to something so simple and easy to understand is amazing. We are astonished and dumbfounded by the trick as long as the Magician holds on to its 'Magic Circle' secret!

To explain Realisationism we must understand the trick. To do this we need to think differently, to contradict the Establishment views imprinted in our unconscious and subconscious memory over generations.

This is now possible with the growing acceptance, over the past 20 years, of what was once a 'crackpot' idea, that alien forms of life may exist in our Universe.

What if alien forms of life landed on Earth in our pre-history - around 13,000 years ago?

I am aware that this is a giant leap of faith, but is integral to the concept of Realisationism which requires a belief in an ancient extra-terrestrial led civilisation, way before the Egyptians, which has hitherto been hidden, deliberately misrepresented or destroyed.

So, what happened to this early civilisation established by extra-terrestrials?

Worldwide evidence indicates a major disturbance on Earth around 10,500 years ago that devastated large areas of our planet. Some suggest a meteor strike, but whatever the reason the ancient civilisation was severely impacted by earthquakes, volcanic eruptions and a massive tsunami. (Younger Dryas Global Event).

All religions describe a Great Flood around 10,500 years ago - Noah for example in the Bible's Book of Genesis.

Did a group of our early extra-terrestrial/human survivors, Noah perhaps, who understood and was witness to this amazing first civilisation, hold on to some of the incredible extra-terrestrial led knowledge and archives from the Universe? Was this information saved in the mythical 'ark'??

We are led to believe the 'Ark' to be a large boat where Noah brought in the animals "two by two". Has this word 'Ark' been deliberately misinterpreted? It is now suggested that the correct translation for the word 'Ark' is "a pointed stone structure" - a pyramid? Is it more likely the 'Ark' was some sort of storage facility - maybe one of the surviving pyramids in Egypt with the information long since moved to a more secure secretive location?

Maybe animals were taken into an 'Ark' - a scientific pyramid, two by two for experimental purposes. Horses, bulls, homo sapiens, birds, etc.

Perhaps the hybrid Sphinx was built in front of the Great Pyramid to represent the location where crossbreed creatures were "created". Could this explain why hundreds of mythical creatures described in Greek mythology for example, the minotaur, centaur and dragon, did actually exist but as freaks didn't survive long after the catastrophic event? Will we soon have the technology to repeat these early experiments?

In the aftermath of the devastation is it possible that a group of Elites, (a complex 'Magic Circle'), took control and were able to hide much of the extra-terrestrial knowledge from the remaining confused survivors?

Has our early civilisation and evolution been deliberately obscured by a group of Elites who have continually held power over the rest of us since this time via a larger Establishment group?

Elites can easily manipulate the Establishment via Projects Greed, Fear and Power plus their ability to easily discredit and destroy anyone who becomes a threat to their power and authority. The Establishment use similar tactics on the rest of us!

I don't believe the rich well-known families such as the Vanderbilt, Rockefellers and Carnegies or even monarchs, media moguls and politicians were Elites. They were merely rich Establishment figures along with other very rich families who could manipulate the rest of the population in a similar way.

Who were these Elites? Knights Templar, Druids, Freemasons, perhaps? Where are they today? Do Elites still exist?

Maybe the Elites have long gone due to their own fragilities leaving us to be ruled by a clueless Establishment! Can we be saved from their immoral capitalistic greed and stupidity?

I believe some of the extra-terrestrial hierarchy who survived the disaster were unable to join or unaware of the Elites. They became part of the general population of survivors.

This could explain why across the centuries every generation has produced "Wise men". Some were quickly discredited, persecuted or worse, as possible threats to the Elites. Many survived.

Is it possible that some of the great thinkers in the past, e.g. Socrates, Buddha and Confucius somehow survived the Elites and came to their conclusions and doctrines based on much of our early history which has now become obscured or lost?

The three great thinkers mentioned above were lovers of wisdom and wished for a world where society was in harmony. Are they echoing something from their research or unconscious memory that had previously existed? Of course, this can only be speculation and the idea that the seeds of Humanity came from extra-terrestrials can only be blind faith at this time.

Are we now beginning to realise that we are all and have always been so very clever? There is no comparison when equated to our nearest relatives the chimpanzee and bonobo?

Darwinism doesn't explain human development from homo sapiens. Does a missing link(s) exist? Or did homo sapiens develop with little change to their physical structure, but with an Alien Visitor gene possessing great intelligence and knowledge?

I believe we are beginning to wake up to the idea that we have all inherited amazing knowledge via a 'trans-generational memory gene' that has been passed down to us from our first ET/Homo sapiens offspring! We all have amazing knowledge hidden in our unconscious memory.

Thankfully, every generation is producing more and more of us with greater wisdom and knowledge than the Establishment. Is it na�ve to think the Establishment will change or step aside to allow others more open-minded with the ability to look after and govern our planet more fairly and responsibly? Or is this just a pipe dream?

Throughout human history not only have we been excluded from the 'Magic Circle' secrets, but we have been deliberately side-tracked when getting too close to the answer!

This is particularly true when investigating pre-historic ancient megaliths and stone structures which can help us find the answers!

We are beginning to realise the scientific complexity of pyramids, built on every continent on Earth for different functions, but all producing various forms of energy. There appears to have been amazing knowledge on Earth at this time?

I believe we are entering an age of Realisationism where we are beginning to comprehend how and why we are being manipulated and to recognise how easy it is to be manipulated.

The Establishment is now trying to control what we can and can't say under their guise of "political correctness", making a mockery of the millions who died in the last century fighting for our freedom.

But they can't control what we think!

We need to think for ourselves, to contradict the Establishment views imprinted in our unconscious and subconscious memory over time.

I hope the Realisationism movement gains momentum to take control of our own destiny for the sake of our children and our precious planet.

Quotes

"The missing link between animals and the real human being is most likely ourselves". Konrad Lorenz

"Nothing exists except atoms and space; everything else is opinion". Democritus of Abdera

"The simple process of focusing on things that are normally taken for granted is a powerful source of creativity". Edward de Bono. www.SilburyDawning.com

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