Suggested Products for Traveling

Suggested Products for Traveling

By Paxton Hutchens

In this article, I have decided to highlight a few products and services for you that I never travel without:

Suitcase: My favorite brand of suitcase is Samsonite. Mine have held up very well during my travels. When my family moved to japan we went with 14 of these suitcases in tow and we still have them to do this day. Airlines can be rough on luggage so it's important to have a bag that is going to hold up after being thrown around a little bit. They also come in a variety of sizes which can be helpful depending on how long your trip is and how much you are packing. The outside pockets are also nice to store things you need easier access to like a jacket so you don't have to carry it around.

Airlines: My favorite airline is Lufthansa. I have a previous blog post written about it explain why I enjoy traveling with this airline so much. They have been some of the most comfortable flights I have experienced and the service is amazing. The airline I most commonly fly is United. I have a been a member of the airline since I was ten. I have used my frequent flyer miles for trips and it's an easy, painless process and the rewards are nice. Being a member, you get access to the lounges in the airports. This is nice because it's somewhere else to go and sit in during layovers instead of at the crowded gate. The lounge is also nice because it has food and nicer bathrooms (who can complain about that). United has always had very convenient flights for me. They have always flown to the destinations I want to go to and they usually have options for flight times. I've never had an issue with connecting flights either. No airline is perfect and flying can be a pain but I have had great experience with both Lufthansa and United.

Travelmate memory foam neck pillow: Neck pillows are amazing for traveling. Some trips can be long and traveling is tiring. Having one of these can help you get some sleep when you are waiting during long layovers or even on the plane. It's great neck support for trying to sleep on planes and in chairs when you can't lay down. Wanting to sleep and not being able to is one of the most frustrating parts about traveling. These are comfortable and come in different colors to make them even more fun. They can also hook right on to your bags so you don't have to carry them separately and avoid the risk of losing them.

  https://www5.cob.ilstu.edu/phutche/

Article Source:  Suggested Products for Traveling

Adventure Holidays in India and Abroad

Adventure Holidays in India and Abroad

By Robin Kumar

Rightly said by John Steinbeck, American author and nobel prize winner - "People don't take trips, trips take people". As India today is becoming more aware of the merits of a healthy and balanced lifestyle, holiday choices are getting more skewed towards adventure trips. Indians are no longer satisfied with just sitting back in cosy hotel rooms and enjoying the view.

Today a holiday means a lot more than that. We seek what's in the wild, under the ocean and beyond the mountains. We seek thrill and fulfilment.

Given its vast and varied topography, India itself offers a huge range of adventure tour options. In fact, adventure holidays in India have gained a lot of popularity in the past many years. Be it the soaring mountains of the north, the pristine beaches of the west and south, or the dense woods of the centre, there are a plethora of options to choose from. Tourists from all over the world are taking their adventure holidays in India across popular destinations in such as:

Hiking in the Himalayas with many scenic towns offering a variety of other options for the adventure lovers including paragliding and forest treks. You can also explore the pristine terrains in other popular regions including Leh, Ladkah, Jammu and Kashmir and the very scenic North East.

Exploring the wild life in the heart of India, Madhya Pradesh. The state boasts of many dense national parks, with the Bandhavgarh offering the most adventurous jungle safari. Other places like Gujarat, Coorg, Uttarakhand and Assam too offer thrilling wild life holidays.

Skiing holidays in the extreme North. The state of Uttarakhand offers long and beautiful slopes ideal for skiing, making it an attractive destination for adventure seekers.

Experiencing the thrill of Water sports. India is known to be the land of beautiful, gigantic rivers and a vast coastal line. Water sports like white water rafting, therefore, become a natural attraction for tourists from all over the world. Popular rafting destinations in India include Rishikesh, Sikkim, Arunachal, Ladakh, Manali and Karnataka. You can also enjoy a variety of water sports such as deep sea diving, parasailing etc. in exotic locations along the Indian coast and beautiful islands like the Andaman.

If you choose to widen your horizon, you can also explore some very popular adventure holidays outside India. Of the numerous adventure holidays outside India, some locales that have gained significant fame include:

Near neighbours including Nepal, Bhutan and Myanmar: These captivating adventure holidays outside India offer just the right landscape for an unforgettable experience.

Canada: With breath-taking mountain ranges, thousands of pristine lakes and countless wild life reserves, the country is a major favourite for adventure holidays.

The mystic Middle East: Experience the ancient yet modern Arab land by visiting the thriving adventure hubs of Oman and Dubai.

African Safaris: Explore the intriguing wild life across the continent including the most popular safaris of Brazil and Kenya.

The amazing Australian adventures: When it comes to a thrilling escapade, Australia is a wholesome package. From mesmerizing oceans to the dense forests with exotic wild life, Australia has a lot to offer for those who want to make the most of their trip.

While we have several attractive adventure holiday packages in the market, Odyssey tours and Travels is one of the preferred choice of many adventure tourists. They offer attractive offers on beautiful locations both in and outside India. The company, along with the 'Active Holiday Company' offers excellent packages for guided as well as self-guided international holidays. You can book on any one of these tours and experience an exhilarating journey full of polar expeditions, jungle safaris and activities such as hiking, trekking, cycling etc.

Pune tour operators

Author

The author tracks and cover holiday packages and popular tourist places. He has recently forayed into coverage of cruise packages and alternative holiday destinations. In this particular article, she provides her views on adventure holidays in India and adventure holidays outside India..

Article Source:  Adventure Holidays in India and Abroad

Choosing Your Destination

Choosing Your Destination

By Paxton Hutchens

Once you have decided you are ready to take trip, whether it is your first international trip or another you're adding to a long list of previous destinations, you will be faced with the task of deciding where you want to go. This can be a hard thing to do. The world is massive and there are so, so many different choices. I always struggle trying to decide where I would like to visit next and to be honest, sometimes the answer changes. It all just kind of depends what your interests have been in lately and what's really calling out to you. This page will list a few different techniques you can use to help you decide where you want to go next or at least help you to narrow it down.

Budget: It's always important to consider your budget. As fun and exciting as it may be, international travel does not come cheap. Make sure you have planned well in advance and have been saving for your next adventure. It's almost important to budget a little extra money for things you maybe hadn't thought about. Always make sure you can afford a few extra nights in a hotel and some extra meals just in case something doesn't go as planned. It's also important to consider your list of countries when talking about budgeting. Different parts of the world are a lot more expensive than others. You're going to spend a lot more money if you are traveling to Europe than if you are traveling to South America. Cost of living is different everywhere you go. Flights will also have different pricing depending on your destination. Make sure you think about what you will be spending money and be honest when making your budget.

Time: Time constraints are another thing to think about. How long do you want to be gone? How much time can you take off work or school? Are you traveling with others who are working with a time constraint? Consider how much time you are dealing with and plan accordingly. If you only have about 5 days I wouldn't suggest taking off to Australia. If you have a shorter period of time choose somewhere close to home with less traveling time and a smaller country that you can see more of in a small amount of time. While the nonstop exploring of traveling can be fun it it's fun to try and fit too much in too little time. Make sure you give yourself enough time to enjoy what you are doing.

  https://www5.cob.ilstu.edu/phutche/

Article Source: Choosing Your Destination

Facing Your Fears While Traveling Abroad

Facing Your Fears While Traveling Abroad

By Paxton Hutchens

This page is all about solving the problem of being afraid of traveling. Fear is one of the biggest things that holds back first-time travelers from taking the leap and going to the country they've always dreamed about. I understand the fear and can relate. I was scared the fist time I ever left the country. Granted I was only ten years old and I was moving to Japan and wasn't going to be back in the states for a year. So, if ten-year-old me can do it you surely can too.This page is broken down into different fears and challenges you may face while traveling.

The fear of flying: A lot of people don't like to fly. I will admit that I am not a huge fan of it myself. I do alright on shorter trips but those long, non-stop 13 hour flights to Japan still get to me. I get nauseous, bored, and sometimes just nervous. I've found that the trick to flying is to simply just not think about it. I know this sounds kind of silly and you're probably thinking how am I supposed to do that? Don't think about how long you have to sit on the plane or the fact that you are thousands of feet in the air. Don't check the map on the screen and think too much about the flight. Use it as relaxing time. Read a book. Watch a movie. Journal. Color. Get work done if you have some. Take a nap and catch up on some sleep. Distract yourself and think of it as some down time before the fun part of the trip actually starts. Also, if you know that flying can make you nauseous, make sure you take something to help with motion sickness. This works wonders for me. I hope you are able to try a few things to help make your next flight more comfortable for you and maybe even learn to find flying exciting.

Fear of the language barrier: One of my friends is always talking about how she wants to travel but one of her main concerns that seems to hold her back is nerves about not being able to speak the local language. You would be surprised how many people around the world speak English. I have honestly found that some foreigners who speak English as a second language speak it better than we do as our first language. If a language barrier is a huge concern for you, plan your first trip to Europe or Australia or somewhere locals are more likely to know your language. This will ease you into international travel without overwhelming you and you won't have to worry about this issue as much. Once you become comfortable traveling and realize a language barrier isn't as scary as it sounds, you will learn to be more adventurous and maybe try visiting Asia on your text trip where English isn't as prevalent.

  https://www5.cob.ilstu.edu/phutche/

Article Source:  Facing Your Fears While Traveling Abroad

Hot Jupiter Planets: Any Way The Wind Blows

Hot Jupiter Planets: Any Way The Wind Blows

By Judith E Braffman-Miller

A generation ago, planet-hunting astronomers discovered the first exoplanets in orbit around distant stars beyond our own Sun--and these new discoveries have since provided a treasure chest filled with remarkable brave new worlds for scientists to ponder. Some of these remote planets show an almost eerie resemblance to the eight major planets in our own Solar System, while others are so exotic that they are unlike anything astronomers believed could exist--until they actually observed them. Hot Jupiter exoplanets do not resemble any of the major planets that circle our own Star, and these strange, distant, enormous, and gaseous worlds orbit their own parent-stars fast and close in roasting orbits. Although hot Jupiters bear a close resemblance to our own Solar System's banded behemoth gas-giant Jupiter, they are much closer to their parent-stars than Jupiter is to our Sun. Indeed, before their discovery, astronomers assumed that such gas-giant planets could only form far from their stars, in the outer regions of their planetary systems, where our own Jupiter is situated. In January 2018, a team of astronomers discovered yet another intriguing mystery about these bizarre gigantic worlds--the hottest region on a hot Jupiter exoplanet, closely clinging to its parent-star, isn't where astrophysicists expected it to be. This discovery challenges our scientific understanding of the numerous planets, of this exotic type, that are found in planetary systems orbiting stars beyond our own.

Unlike our Jupiter, hot Jupiters are so amazingly close to their parent-stars that it usually takes them less than three days to finish an orbit. In addition, one hemisphere of these distant worlds always faces its stellar parent, while the other face is always turned away from it, perpetually locked in darkness.

Of course, the "day" side of a hot Jupiter gets considerably hotter than the "night" side, and obviously the hottest point of all should be the region closest to the roiling, broiling star. Astrophysicists have proposed that these exoplanet "roasters" also experience powerful winds roaring eastward near their equators, which can at times displace the hot spot toward the east.

However, a mysterious hot Jupiter dubbed CoRoT-2b seems to travel to the beat of a different drummer. The hot spot on CoRoT-2b turns out to be located in the opposite direction--that is, it lies west of center. A team of astronomers at McGill University's McGill Space Institute (MSI) and the Institute for research on exoplanets (iREx) in Montreal, Canada, made this surprising discovery using NASA's Spitzer Space Telescope. Their findings are published in the January 22, 2018 issue of the journal Nature Astronomy.

"We've previously studied nine other hot Jupiter giant planets orbiting super close to their star. In every case, they have had winds blowing to the east, as theory would predict. But now, nature has thrown us a curveball. On this planet, the wind blows the wrong way. Since it's often the exceptions that prove the rule, we are hoping that studying this planet will help us understand what makes hot Jupiters tick," noted Dr. Nicolas Cowan in a January 22, 2018 McGill University Press Release. Dr. Cowan is a McGill astronomer, and a study co-author. He is also a researcher at MSI and iREx.

Distant "Roaster" Planets

The eight major planets of our Sun's family display a wide range of attributes. They are distinguished by two primary properties: their size and their orbit. The size of one of our Solar System's planetary denizens determines if it can have an atmosphere capable of sustaining life. The orbit affects the surface temperature and whether there could be life-loving liquid water pooling on the planet's surface. A planet that is considered to be potentially habitable not only should have liquid water on its surface, it must also be between about 80% to 200% the diameter of Earth.

The habitable zone surrounding a star is that "Goldilocks" region where the temperature is not too hot, not too cold, but just right for water to exist in its liquid phase. Liquid water is necessary to sustain life as we know it. Planets that circle their star in this "Goldilocks" region have the potential--though by no means the promise--of being inhabited by life as we know it.

Planets that are smaller than 8/10ths of an Earth-diameter, and also possess less than 50% an Earth-mass, do not have a sufficiently strong gravitational grip to hold onto a life-sustaining atmosphere. Conversely, planets that are more than twice the diameter of Earth sport about ten Earth-masses and sufficient gravity to hold onto hydrogen. Hydrogen is both the most abundant, as well as the lightest, atomic element. Such behemoth planets evolve into gas-giants like Jupiter and Saturn. Jupiter is more than ten times the diameter of our planet and over 300 times more massive.

The first exoplanet to be discovered circling a main-sequence (hydrogen burning) star, similar to our Sun, was 51 Pegasi b (51 Peg b, for short). Even though 51 Peg b has about the same mass as Jupiter, it is twenty times closer to its star than Earth is to the Sun. Jupiter is five times as far from our Sun as Earth, and it takes 12 years to orbit our Star. In sharp contrast, 51 Peg b orbits its star every 4 days.

51 Peg b was discovered in 1995 by astronomers using the radial velocity method, which was the first method used to successfully detect faraway exoplanets. The radial velocity technique spots the oscillations (wobbles) that these planets induce in the movements of their stellar parents, and the relatively large and rapid motions caused by giant, close-in planets in star-hugging orbits, are the easiest planets for astronomers to spot using this method. That is because this type of planet causes the greatest "wobble" in its parent-star. When 51 Peg b was discovered, it surprised planet-hunting astronomers because they did not think such giant, close-in, gas-laden worlds could exist.

As of January 1, 2018, there are 3,726 confirmed exoplanets in 2,792 systems, with 622 systems hosting more than one planet. There is also a population of free-floating (orphan) planets that do not belong to the family of any star at all, but instead wander as solitary worlds through interstellar space, without the compansionship of a stellar parent or planetary siblings. It is generally thought that originally these "orphan" worlds were members of a planetary system, but they were evicted from their original home as a result of the gravitational jostling of sibling planets. These sibling worlds hurled these tragic "orphans" out into the cold darkness of the space between stars, to wander alone and lost through the interstellar wilderness.

The first sign of an exoplanet beyond our Solar System was noted as early as 1917, but its true identity was not recognized at the time. The first scientific discovery of an exoplanet was in 1988. Soon afterwards, the first validated detection came in 1992.

Today, the discovery of thousands of exoplanets has become almost routine for astronomers who are on the hunt for distant worlds. The search for planets belonging to the families of remote stars, beyond our Sun, historically proved to be a difficult quest. At last, in 1992, the very first batch of genuinely bizarre exoplanets were discovered in orbit around a small, dense, and rapidly whirling stellar corpse termed a pulsar. Dr. Alexander Wolszczan of Pennsylvania State University, after carefully studying radio emissions streaming out from a compact millisecond pulsar with the drab name of PSR B1257+12, made the historic announcement that it was being circled by several extraordinarily weird small worlds. A pulsar is only about 12 miles in diameter--and it is actually the collapsed core of what was once a massive main-sequence star on the Hertzsprung-Russell Diagram of Stellar Evolution. This genuinely bizarre, dense, tiny stellar relic is all that is left of a heavy star that has finished burning its necessary supply of hydrogen fuel, and has perished in the fabulous final blaze of glory that characterizes a brilliant supernova blast.

In 1995, 51 Peg b was discovered in orbit around a normal Sun-like star. This discovery was first made by Dr. Michel Mayor and Dr. Didier Queloz of Switzerland's Geneva Observatory. It was soon confirmed by a team of American planet-hunting astronomers using the Lick Observatory's three-meter telescope atop Mount Hamilton in California.

Following the historic discovery of 51 Peg b, new theories were quickly devised to explain the surprising existence of hot Jupiters. Some astronomers proposed that these strange "roasters" were actually enormous molten rocks, while others suggested that they were gas-giant planets that had been born about 100 times farther away from their parent-stars. According to the latter theory, hot Jupiters were shot back towards their roiling, broiling parent-stars as a result of near-collisions with other sibling planets--or, possibly, by the gravitational jostling of a binary stellar companion of their own star.

One proposal suggests that hot Jupiters are born much farther from their parent-star, before they make their journey inward, at a distance that is comparable to that of our Solar System's Jupiter. This is because these "roasters" gradually lose energy as a result of interactions with what is termed the protoplanetary accretion disk. This disk, composed of gas and dust, swirls around young stars, and it is the birthplace of their retinue of orbiting planets. The newborn giant planet, as a result of this interaction, spirals inward towards the searing-hot and bright inner regions of the planetary system, closer to its youthful parent-star. As a result of its unfortunate journey towards its roiling, broiling stellar parent, the baby gas-giant travels very far from its more remote birthplace, far from its star, where it is both much colder and darker.

Hot Jupiter exoplanets may be doomed behemoths, destined to undergo a very violent demise within the seething-hot furious furnaces of their glaring parent-stars. However, until they make their final, fatal plunge into their stars' churning fires, these unfortunate "roasters" orbit their stellar-parents fast and close.

Roasting hot Jupiters actually are a diverse bunch. However, they do have certain properties in common:

--Many show low densities.

--Most have circular orbits.

--By definition they all possess large masses and short orbital periods around their parent-stars.

--They are apparently more common in orbit around F-and G-type stars, but less common around K-type stars. They are usually not found circling tiny red dwarf stars. Red dwarfs are both the most abundant, as well as the smallest, true stars to populate our Milky Way Galaxy.

--Many hot Jupiters are blanketed by extreme and exotic atmospheres, resulting from their short orbital periods, relatively long days, and tidal locking.

The Strange Case Of CoRoT-2b

The strange "roaster", dubbed CoRoT-2b, was discovered a decade ago by a French-led space observatory mission. This nonconformist alien world resides 930 light-years from our planet and, even though many other hot Jupiters have been discovered in recent decades, CoRoT-2b has continued to sing a sirens' song to astronomers because of its two mysterious attributes: its bloated size and the exotic spectrum of light emissions coming from its surface.

"Both of these factors suggest there is something unusual happening in the atmosphere of this hot Jupiter," commented Lisa Dang in the January 22, 2018 McGill University Press Release. Ms. Dang, who is the lead author of the new study, is a doctoral student at McGill. By using Spitzer's Infrared Array Camera to observe the planet while it finished an orbit around its parent-star, the astronomers were able to map the planet's surface brightness for the first time. This is how its unusual westward hot spot was discovered.

The team of astronomers offer three possible explanations for the puzzling attributes of CoRoT-2b:

--The planet could be spinning so slowly that a single rotation takes longer than one full orbit of its parent-star. This slow rotation could create winds that blow toward the west rather than the east. However, this possibility could weaken theories about planet-star interactions.

--CoRoT-2b's atmosphere could be interacting with its magnetic field to modify its wind pattern. This possibility could give astronomers the rare chance to study an exoplanet's magnetic field.

--Large clouds blanketing the eastern side of CoRoT-2b might make it appear darker than it would otherwise. This possibility could challenge current models of atmospheric circulation on such planets.

Lisa Dang commented in the January 22, 2018 McGill University Press Release that "We'll need better data to shed light on the questions raised by our finding. Fortunately, the James Webb Space Telescope, scheduled to launch next year, should be capable of tackling this problem. Armed with a mirror that has 100 times the collecting power of Spitzer's, it should provide us with exquisite data like never before."

The new research is published under the title: Detection of a westward hotspot offset in the atmosphere of hot gas giant CoRoT-2b, published in the January 22, 2018 issue of Nature Astronomy. Study co-authors are Lisa Dang, Nicholas B. Cowan, and Joel C. Schwartz.

Judith E. Braffman-Miller is a writer and astronomer whose articles have been published since 1981 in various journals, newspapers, and magazines. Although she has written on a variety of topics, she particularly loves writing about astronomy because it gives her the opportunity to communicate to others the many wonders of her field. Her first book, "Wisps, Ashes, and Smoke," will be published soon.

Article Source: Hot Jupiter Planets: Any Way The Wind Blows

River Cruising Versus Ocean Cruising

River Cruising Versus Ocean Cruising

By Richard D Boyce

At first, it is important to say that the river and ocean cruising experiences are entirely different but equally enjoyable. As an Australian, it is easy to access any number of ocean cruises leaving from most state capital with a wide variety of cruising lines with a large list of destinations in the Pacific and eastern Asian areas.

On the other hand, the traditional river cruising of Europe means a long plane flight before your cruise states. (It is only recently that areas in South and Eastern Asia has become river cruise destinations).

So the first considerations that must be made by an Australian wishing to cruise are the cost and time involved in both before a decision is made either or both ways.

Let me now discuss the differences and similarities between each type of cruising.

Our first ocean cruise was on a ship with 2000 plus passengers and a thousand plus crew while our first ever river cruise contained only about 180 passengers. That is the first different you notice. Then you go from a ship with fourteen decks to one with only three. The river boat was 135 metres long while the cruise ship might be up to 300 metres long.

Even though there are two or more thousand passengers travelling with you on a cruise ship, on most occasions, there is not a feeling that the ship is crowded. On the other hand, river cruise boats with less than two hundred passengers only feels crowded at the evening meal as there is only one restaurant on board. Ocean cruise ships have many dining choices.

On the river cruise, passengers are off the boat each day on organised tours as part of their cruise. So there are not any planned activities on the boat during the day. On an ocean cruise, there are many activities on the ship in which passengers may indulge, daily.

The ocean cruise provides a greater variety of entertainment from the big musical productions in the theatre to more intimate entertainment in the various bars or in the atrium. On our river cruise, we had a singer entertain us at morning tea, afternoon tea and during the evening providing us with a variety of music types to fit the time of day. As well, traditional entertainers from each country or locality came on board to give us a performance of their music.

Both types of cruising offer off boat tours that can be booked by guests with ocean cruises providing many more tour options. With the river cruise, there is something to see and do each day off the boat. Firstly there is the included, guide led tour of the city followed by a chance to wander around that city at your leisure. Some days you might visit two cities. On most ocean cruises, there will be days at sea where you can just relax or indulge in the activities provided by the ship. On a river cruise, most of the movement of the ship is carried out at night.

On a cruise ship, there are several public areas in which to sit and relax. They include bars, a library, an Internet room, pool decks and a large atrium where light refreshments are served. The river cruise boat has a lounge which includes a bar and this is where the entertainment occurs. The river cruise boat has a sun deck on the top of the boat as well.

Getting on and off the ship/boat is much easier on the river cruise simply because of the numbers of passengers involved. This means getting to do off the boat tours is easy and quick.

River cruising, because of the size of the boat and no lifts, would be extremely difficult for the disabled or elderly who find getting around difficult. The ocean cruise lines are able to do a great job looking after the disabled and elderly.

Forming new friendships is much easier on the river cruise. On the bigger cruise ships passengers are like "ships passing in the night". Even with friends on board, it is possible not to encounter them on any given day.

The great things about cruising are:
• You unpack only once;
• You don't need to spend any extra money;
• Meals and some refreshments are on tap as part of the cost of the cruise;
• Your state room is serviced each day; and
• You have many options on what to do or not to do.

The embarking process on the cruise ship can be very daunting for a first time cruiser with two thousand plus passengers trying to board the ship. Getting on our river cruise boat for the first time was a "breeze" by comparison.

Finally, it is important to say that both types of cruising have much to offer to the traveller. So I suggest that a traveller should try each at least once. You might be surprised and fall in love with the idea of cruising.

Our author is a retired Mathematics teacher who, in retirement, began to write over many books about classroom teaching designed to help young teachers and newly appointed heads of curriculum to settle more easily into their careers. More recently, he has written books on his other passions, Australian Football and Public Speaking. You will find these on http://www.createspace.com and on Kindle.

Article Source:  River Cruising Versus Ocean Cruising

How To Control People And Circumstances

How To Control People And Circumstances

By James J Elleyby

First of all, let me point this out from the get go! The only person who you can fully control is you! You're in control over what you say, and what you do, and how you think. You're in control over where you go, and how you act. You're in control over if you do it, or if you don't do it.

Follow me closely here and pay full attention now. Because, you don't have direct control over anyone, or anything. But, you can greatly influence and manipulate people and circumstances when you know how to act, and you know what to do. For the very purposes of clarification here, you can control other people simply by controlling your own self! You can also control circumstances, again, by simply controlling your own self.

Something important to note is that physical control over a person who is capable of thinking for their own self is virtually impossible. So, don't be fooled in this department. You might be physically stronger than them, and you may even be able to slap them around for a while, but the truth is, if they have a mind and they are able to think on their own, you do not have the full control over them that you might erroneously believe. Even if you might have a slave, there is still a level of allowance that they are affording to you. You see, because the person whom you are controlling must decide to give you control in the first place. I say all of that, to say this. Brute force is a very unreliable means of controlling another person. Because, the moment you slip up, is the moment you will truly discover that you are, indeed, powerless to control anyone, except your own self!

To control a circumstance, you must understand, that the circumstance is fueled by your own energy. You created the circumstance, so therefore, you are the governor of the circumstance as well.

To control the circumstances, control yourself! Act in such a way that you would desire things to play out. Keep a taller perspective on things.

The upbeat, "pep in the step", cheerful attitude is highly attractive! Friendly, Happy, optimistic demeanors are magnetic in their very nature, because they promote the flow of wellbeing, as they portray innocence, workability, and promise.

If you could just grasp this concept in your mind, that your point of attraction originates from within you, then you would truly realize that it is you whom controls that energetic magnet which draws everything unto you!

Plenty of people won't even dare to consider you romantically if you had a poorly perceived attitude. Authorities, police officers, firefighters, judges, and even doctors will all tend to treat you based upon how you present yourself to them. In other words, if you present yourself with humility and self-love to them, then you are most likely to be treated with profound respect by them! If you present yourself to them as though you are important, then most likely, you will be treated like you are important. Your very presentation alone will encourage even the authorities to carry themselves with the highest degree of professionalism.

On the other hand, if you are going to insist on presenting yourself with an overbearing confidence, a proud character with an unbendable will, then you are most likely to be met with a vigorous force of opposition from those very same authorities! Understand, that this type of demeanor, inadvertently, directly, challenges their authority. So, it is your energy which will encourage them to act like jackasses, and to disregard all of their professional training, because you will send them into a salvage attempt to show you who the real authority is. Don't misunderstand me here. I am not telling you to be weak, to not stand up for your rights, and to allow anyone to just walk all over you. But, what I am telling you is this. You will force them to flex their muscle, if you insist on flexing your muscle.

Don't waste time or energy trying to control other people, or external circumstances. Instead, you only need to simply control your own perfect self! By taking control over your own self, you take control over the situation. If you want the situation to be calm, to be manageable, and to be pleasant, then you must be calm, you must be manageable, and you must be pleasant. This is also how you control other people as well.

Your external circumstances respond to who you are choosing to be. Even more so, everything is one big intricate collaborative sea of energy. We are all, on some level, connected to each other. So, in a sense, what you do to others, you do to yourself. What you do for others, you do for yourself. If you adopt this general principle, you will naturally foster a particular type of humility which will exalt you in just about everything that you do or say.

Let me unravel a little bit of that mystery for you, when I say that we are all, on some level, intricately connected to each other. What great forces could possibly connect us all to each other? Well, for starters, we share one great big sky! We share one great big sun! We even share this great planet together! As a collective whole, it becomes necessary for us to even operate as one being at times, be it for the sake of our own preservation, or the sake for our own entertainment. We share one common language. We don't all need to go to the same places at once, but we share roads, bridges, and tunnels! We produce a single broadcast signal, yet we need that one single signal to be able to reach many different people. Do you understand where I'm going with this? We are all connected on many different levels, including socially, spiritually, mentally, emotionally, and even physically. We must not only be mindful of this fact, but we should also be reverent, sensitive, and responsive to this very real tangible fact! We cannot live and exist alone, so for the purposes of our very existence, we should also cultivate a particular love and appreciation for this fact, as well.

Here's the real secret you've been looking for.

You don't need to control anyone! And, you don't need to control any circumstances either!

To get control, give up control! Let it all go! Because, as soon as you realize that you don't need to control anyone... as soon as you realize that the circumstances and conditions are just fine, and they don't need to be controlled.. as soon as you no longer need to be in control... guess what?

You will realize that you are in full complete control! With this type of thinking and understanding in place, nothing can ever go wrong! You see?

Because you're in complete control.

"Bringing Positive Light and Empowering Perspective To Your Life!"

If you enjoyed this article, then go to my website and make a donation. http://www.mylife.coach

James J. Elleyby

Motivational Life Coach

Article Source: How To Control People And Circumstances

Kenneth Davids 'bapak baptis kopi' mengunjungi Taipei

Penulis empat buku tentang kopi dan editor Coffeereview.com, Kenneth Davids, menghadiri Pameran Kopi Internasional Taiwan 2024 pada Sabtu (...