Grief Healing Nirvana

By Duane Marchant

Your grief healing nirvana is your personal enlightenment. It can be a spiritual enlightenment. Individual nirvana can be your state of bliss or joy. Your companionship with peaceful enlightenment requires essential action solutions.

1- First you must be kind to yourself.
As you experience awful grief you must not forget to be kind to yourself as you seek healing.

"May the world be kind to you, and may your own thoughts be gentle upon yourself."~ Jonathan Lockwood Huie

Serious unwanted grief detours can be difficult task masters on self. They cause you to ask if I should have done something different. Grief obstacles raise questions about when and how to find healing action steps. They cause uncertainty and confusion about where to turn. If you want things to turn out the best, you play the hand you are dealt and make lemonade out of sour lemons. It is important to accept the fact that you can't go back to the way things were. And it is important to not blame self and be kind to yourself.

2- Hold fast to your dreams.
If hope is not present sad indeed is your circumstance. Particularly, is it vital after a horrendous grief happening to dream of a better healing hope. Dream things that you never have and you can say, Why? Then you can say, Why not?

He/she who cannot dream of healing possibilities is shackled and handcuffed in a prison of hopelessness and helplessness. It is essential to believe in yourself and vital that you determine and set healing goals and take personal action steps in accomplishing the goals you choose. You must believe in the beauty and possibilities of your dreams. Your future is determined by what you dream and act upon. You must always dream of more happiness and hope. Hold fast to dreams and hold fast to the possibilities of hope. Dream of happy possibilities. Value each and every possibility for as long as possibilities exist. Never stop dreaming and hoping about the opportunities of happiness in your life. Letting your dreams be bigger than your grief, loss and fears, and your actions louder than your words, and your faith stronger than your hesitations requires personal attentiveness.

3- Take action now.
Thinking about positive solutions to serious problems and challenges you face is important. In fact, substantial pondering about individual healing steps you will take is a must-do exercise. Nevertheless, taking action steps after the pondering is your essential solution to stop grieving and start healing. In fact, eventually you must face yourself no matter who you pretend to be. Action and success are always connected. If you wish to be successful in your efforts to stop grieving and start healing don't quit. There is an essential connection between success and actions. Never quit even if at times you can only take baby step actions.

4- Always seek enlightenment.
Some will seek spiritual enlightenment. Others will seek their individual nirvana as a state of bliss or joy. What is important is that you realize your companionship with peaceful enlightenment requires essential action solutions. Decide what you will do and do it.

"Knowing is not enough; we must apply.

Willing is not enough; we must do."
~ Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

At all times, embrace all positive available social media, technology, internet, and all other beneficial and essential resource solutions. Overcoming despair, grief and loss should be your highest priority. To stop grieving, start healing grief, loss, and sorrow, and finding hope and joy is vital to experiencing lasting peace and happiness. Always search for your own enlightenment.

Be kind to yourself. Always dream of healing possibilities. Don't delay taking action. Diligently try to find your personal enlightenment. Do it now - today!

Learn how to recover from your loss and sorrow and Reclaim Happiness. You can discover the top 7 Grief Relief Strategies to move beyond your grief and loss. Visit http://www.griefreliefacademy.com/ to get your FREE 7-day audio e-course - a ($97) value. Duane H. Marchant is a Grief Relief Specialist who supports men and women throughout the world. He is an author, grieving niche speaker, coach, amputee, caregiver, and founder of Grief Relief Academy. He has walked his own grief path and believes life is precious and dedicates his time to helping all who sorrow - stop grieving & start healing. Duane has an unwavering belief that there is hope and peace beyond even the most profound and painful experiences of life.