Living Life Inside-Out

By George David Williams

It is nothing short of amazing observing an entire generation of young autistic teens transitioning to adulthood. For the past twenty years we have advocated acceptance and inclusion for all people, particularly those with autism and other disabilities. We have witnessed a transformation in society as attitudes have shifted towards greater tolerance and support of people with autism. There are now opportunities available in education, housing, and health care that did not exist as recently as five years ago. Although employment numbers for autistic adults are still lagging, there is optimism things will continue to trend in a positive direction. Admittedly, we have all heard about the push to assimilate autistic adults into broader social circles and the world around us. However, we seldom hear how those with autism are coping with the expectations of others as they seek to find their place in the world.

Success always begins on the inside and manifests itself outward. People with autism would do well to work at developing self confidence and a positive self image as they embark into a world of uncertainty. Meeting the expectations of others has been the primary focal point of growing up with autism. Conformity, even when uncomfortable, was not only expected for autistic children, but generously rewarded. Now on the portal of adulthood, these same young people seem to lack an identity of their own. In spite of the strides made regarding autism awareness and inclusion, there is still an element of paternalism associated with autism. The prevailing thought in many circles is autistic individuals need someone to care for them and make decisions on their behalf. While this may hold true for some people on the spectrum, this is clearly not the case in every situation. For many autistic adults capable of living independently, the very thought of abdicating their freedom of choice is considered a personal affront.

Forging an identity requires a definitive plan of action that spotlights achievement and positive images. The media, all formats, seems to have an obsession with "feel good" stories about autistic children - yet provides minimal coverage related to autistic adults. Creating awareness is extremely important for both autistic children as well as adults on the spectrum. Having positive images of autistic adults in educational and employment settings is valuable for all members of society in order to eradicate some of the limiting beliefs which persist. Further, we need to hear from adults on the high functioning end of the spectrum who live productive lives and are integral parts of communities around the world. Society in general needs to know there are professionals with autism who work as educators, research scientists, business executives, and accountants. Additionally, a more vocal presence from those with autism will go a long way in educating employers as to the tremendous amount of talent earnestly awaiting an opportunity. Finally, there has to be more self advocacy on the part of autistic adults to help galvanize an identity worthy of respect and dignity. The autism community is a growing and vital part of our world that has so much to offer. It's up to all of us to push for expanded access and opportunities to make life better for all citizens.

George D. Williams is an author whose focus is shining light on the challenges confronting the growing autistic adult population. He recently launched Centurion Publishing Services, which provides editing, book cover designs, and ghost writing for self-published authors. http://adultautism2.com http://yourwritepublisher.com